It
was this day, in the year 2005 that we have exchanged our vows. I could not explain in exact words how I felt
that day but I realized that it was through our marriage that my eyes were
opened to the realities of life. How it
really means to say the vows and really live it. Truly experience is a great
teacher. You cannot really be prepared
for just mere theories about life; you just have to live it in order to learn. It is just like learning to swim, you cannot
learn by just listening what to do, you have to plunge in water in order to learn
how to swim. All I know that time was I
am truly passionately in love with you and I prayed to God that he would make
you my husband. I was never really been
away from my parents for so long before but I would leave them just for
you. To live my life, hand in hand with
you.
I
thank God for having you in my life because I became tougher. The experiences we had made me strong and
that strength had equipped me well in dealing with life today. Our love entered so many tests, some of it
we passed but still in some areas we failed.
Our marriage was not perfect; it brought me tears, heartache and failed
expectations. Despite all of this I had
no regrets. I do believe that in life there are no accidents, all of these
things happen for a reason. When you are stubborn and strong-willed you learn the
hard way.
I
could honestly say, at age 27, I was an unprepared mother. Frankly, I don’t like children so I don’t
have the skill to deal with them. It is only through motherhood that I learn
how to love them. I am forever grateful
to you for giving me two beautiful children. They are my inspiration and the
reason why I smile every day.
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